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Writer's pictureJohn Clymore

What's Your Theme Song?

Music has a unique and undeniable ability to influence our emotions and moods. It can lift our spirits, calm us, or even bring us to tears. But why does this happen, and how can we harness this powerful tool to help us?


The explanation lies in both psychology and neuroscience. When we listen to music, it stimulates the brain's limbic system, the part responsible for processing emotions. Studies have shown that music can trigger the release of chemicals such as dopamine, serotonin, and oxytocin, which play a significant role in the emotional impact we experience when listening to our favorite songs.

Music offers a powerful way to regulate and manage our emotions. Here are some examples:


  • Energy Boost: High-energy genres like rock, dance, or electronic music can increase alertness and energize us, helping us feel ready to take on challenges.

  • Stress Relief: Classical music, instrumental tracks, or ambient music can lower stress levels and promote relaxation. For example, during meditation, ambient music often plays a calming background role.

  • Emotional Expression: Sometimes, listening to sad music helps us feel understood or provides an outlet for emotions we find difficult to express. A sad song might resonate with the emotions we're experiencing in the moment.

  • Happiness and Positivity: Uplifting songs with positive lyrics or comforting messages can bring a sense of happiness, empowerment, or inspiration.


While the melody and rhythm of a song can evoke an emotional response, the lyrics are equally important to the experience. Lyrics provide a narrative that listeners can connect with. For instance, an anthem of empowerment can motivate us, while a love song might evoke feelings of affection or nostalgia. Songs with meaningful lyrics allow for deeper engagement, especially when the words resonate with our personal experiences.


I recently attended a concert where I saw the powerful emotional response of the crowd as the artist sang the lyrics, “I am not okay.” It reminded me of the profound ability music has to communicate emotions when words alone might fail. There are songs that help us express or even amplify our sadness or grief. Although sadness is often an emotion we try to avoid, it's actually healthy to express it, especially in times of loss. In these moments, music can be a source of comfort.


So, how can we use music to help us? In my work with clients, I often encourage them to find their "theme song." This is the song that lifts your mood, empowers you, or simply makes you happy. It’s the music you turn to when you need a pick-me-up or when you're about to face a stressful situation. Other songs can help you express sadness, fight boredom, or get energized.


If you don't already know your theme song, I challenge you to find it. After reading this, take the time to discover the song that speaks to your soul and helps you navigate life's emotional landscape.


John Clymore, LCSW, LSCSW

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